Community guidelines
Draft for a lawyer to review. This page is not final and is not in force until counsel publishes it.
These are the house rules we expect members to follow. They are a draft for a lawyer, not a finished code of conduct.
Be an adult, and be yourself
Do not use the service if you are under 18. Do not pretend to be someone else, and do not post another person's photos.
No harassment
Do not insult, threaten, or pressure someone who has passed or left. A no is the end of that approach.
No sexual content with anyone under 18
Any hint of a minor is reported and can suspend the account. Do not ask anyone to prove they are an adult by sending intimate photos.
Keep contact details in Share my number
Do not share a phone number, email, or social handle in chat, on a profile, or on a call. Use Share my number. That unlocks after 14 days of chatting, or from the start of a speed date. A speed date keeps it unlocked in that chat. One person shares. The other pays tokens to reveal it. That is the only exchange for the match. Breaking this rule is grounds for a ban.
Parties
Show up as yourself. Do not record a round. Do not bring in anyone who is not in the line-up.
Reports
Use the report reasons when something breaks these rules. False reports made to punish someone can themselves be reviewed.